I gotta say, though, once I really committed to thinking positively, my entire dating life transformed for the better. However, after actively working on myself and reframing the way I think, I now see myself as valuable and the guys I date can see it too. I used to be a major people pleaser. Everything I did, I did for everyone else. I would run around all day trying to make sure people liked me when I should have really been putting that kind of attention and care on myself. Thank God I finally snapped out of it.
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A positive attitude causes a chain reaction of positive thoughts, events and outcomes. It is a catalyst and it sparks extraordinary results. I always advise people to focus on what they love and not on what they hate, to look for the good in people instead of the bad, to act as they would love to be not as others tell them they should, for what we focus on expands and. What we resist, not only persists but will also grow in size.
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Having a positive attitude has many benefits. You would not be surprised to hear that having a positive attitude leads to success — success in your relationships or success in your work. You most likely have met people who are either always complaining about their manager or co-worker or neighbour; what makes these people seem like perpetual complainers? Are things really that bad in their life or do they just have a negative attitude? Similarly, we also know people who have a great attitude, always see the glass as half full and just seem positive and happy most of the time.
The first and biggest hurdle you will encounter when you are HIV positive and dating is how people will react when they find out your HIV status. Disclosure can play itself out in a variety of ways. If a committed relationship is what you want, you must get there in your own time. But, committed monogamous relationships are not for everyone, and we need to look at how to negotiate other options. Every flirtation that could end in emotional or physical intimacy brings a decision point; when to tell or not to tell.